Bali — A Personal Guide | Lead Yourself Retreat
A few things worth looking at before we connect

Bali,
beyond the retreat.

Ubud · Canggu · Gili Islands

I wanted to put together all the things I would walk you through anyway,
so you can browse at your own pace, take notes, and come to our call
with the questions that matter most to you.


Please treat this as a starting point, not a prescription. Bali has a remarkable amount to offer and there are far more great places than we could ever list here. These are spots we have personally stayed at or enjoyed over the years. They span a range of styles and budgets. What works for one person may not work for another, and part of the joy of this island is finding your own rhythm.

If you have somewhere in mind that is not on this list, ask me. I have probably been there or know someone who has.


There are no direct flights. That is normal.

You fly into Denpasar Ngurah Rai International Airport (DPS). From there, Ubud is approximately an hour and a half by car depending on traffic. If you are arriving early to explore, see the transport section below for how we can help.

If you are booking for the first time, the itineraries can look overwhelming at first glance. Long total travel times, one or two layovers, and a lot of hours in the air. This is just the reality of getting to Bali from most parts of the world. Once you do it, you realize it is very manageable and the destination is more than worth it.

Everyone's situation is different. You may have airline points, preferred carriers, or routing constraints that make one option better than another. These are simply the routes that have worked well for us over the years, shared in case they are helpful as a starting point.

For the first several years before COVID, we flew EVA Air from New York via Taipei. Roughly 16 hours to Taipei, then 5 hours on to Bali. A clean and comfortable itinerary. On some trips we chose an overnight layover in Taipei to see the city before continuing, which is a nice option if you have the time.

After COVID, we flew Qatar Airways via Doha once, which was also a very pleasant experience. For the past three years we have been flying Turkish Airlines, which for East Coast US travelers splits the journey into two comfortable chunks, roughly 9 to 10 hours to Istanbul and 12 hours on to Bali. We have personally used the Istanbul layover to visit friends and family for dinner. If you have the time and interest to explore Istanbul on your way through, I am happy to give you pointers on that as well.

Over the years I have helped people traveling from all over the world navigate their way to the retreat. If you want guidance based on your specific situation, I am happy to help on the call.


Ubud is your home.

For the days before the retreat, Ubud is where we always return. It is the cultural and spiritual heart of Bali. There are two areas we tend to point people toward depending on what kind of experience they want.

The first is the central Yoga Barn area. You can walk to almost everything from here, the cafes, the restaurants, the studios, the market. It has a natural community feel and is especially good for solo travelers. The second is the quieter area around Alchemy Yoga, slightly outside the main center. Less tourist density, still very accessible, with coffee shops, restaurants, and small stores nearby without the heavy crowds. Hava Ubud is a great and well-priced option in this area.

There are countless hotel options at every level in both areas. The ones below are places we have personally stayed at or visited. Do your own research and you will find plenty more.

Where to stay in Ubud
Central · walkable
Yoga Barn Accommodations
On-site stay steps from classes. Great community energy. A reliable classic.
Central · elevated
Alaya Resort
Right behind Yoga Barn. Beautiful property, slightly more polished.
Central · simple
Japa Suites
Clean, no-frills, pleasant. Good value and a great location.
Quieter area · well priced
Hava Ubud
Near Alchemy Yoga. Comfortable and well-located in the quieter part of Ubud. Good balance of quality and value.
Splurge · iconic
Four Seasons Sayan
Four Seasons in Ubud, with a distinctly Balinese touch. A well-known property on the island, worth looking into if you want to treat yourself.
Splurge · architecture
Bambu Indah
The architecture is the reason to go. See their website for yourself. Also a wonderful spot for sunset even if you are not staying there.

Ubud eats well.

Like New York, Ubud is abundant with great restaurants. These are the ones we return to consistently.

Breakfast · coffee
Suka Espresso
Our go-to for morning coffee and breakfast. Consistent and good energy.
Breakfast · lunch · vibe
Yoga Barn Café
Experience breakfast or a smoothie here at least once. The setting is as good as the food.
Breakfast · lunch
Alchemy Café
Fantastic options all day. A regular stop when we are in that part of town.
Cocktails · happy hour · dinner
Ibu Susu
A minute from Alaya. Restaurant and bar. Great for happy hour or a quick stop during a shopping day.
Dinner · must visit
Zest
Great vibe, great food. A Ubud staple that holds up every time.
Unique experience
Room for Dessert
One of a kind. Reservations recommended. Walk-ins for dessert only are sometimes possible but expect a wait at the door.
Sunset drinks
Sayan House is a must for sunset. It sits in the Sayan area, a little outside of central Ubud, a short ride from the Hava and Alchemy side of town. Plan this for before the retreat starts as the timing will not align once we begin. One of the best sunset views on the island. While you are in that area, Brie Restaurant & Cheesery is also worth a visit.

The studios are worth your time.

Yoga Barn and Alchemy are the two anchors of the Ubud wellness community. Beyond regular Vinyasa classes, both offer many different modalities. Their cafes naturally bring like-minded people together, which makes them especially good for solo travelers. Yoga Barn is in the vibrant central area. Alchemy has a more laid-back energy on the quieter side of Ubud.


Massage is everywhere. Quality varies.

There are massage parlors on almost every corner in Ubud, ranging from street-level to full resort spa treatment. For a truly elevated experience, properties like Four Seasons and Ritz-Carlton offer exceptional service that is still more affordable than comparable treatments elsewhere.

For deep bodywork specifically, I personally appreciate Itong. He has deep anatomical knowledge and his work is exceptional. His space is clean and simple, not luxurious. That said, this is not a one-size-fits-all recommendation. Read his Google Maps reviews, see if it sounds like your kind of thing, and if you want to book, reach out to him on WhatsApp, listed on his Google Maps profile. Tell him you found him through Emre and Bee. He is popular so reach out early.

Itong Bodywork — find him at maps.app.goo.gl/5494VerbxtryxJN5A


Skip the street taxis. Use the apps.

Bali has ceremonies happening almost every day of the week somewhere on the island. Combined with the volume of tourists, a 10-minute distance by car can easily become 40 minutes. Traffic is a real factor here.

The ride-hailing apps Gojek and Grab are your best option. Both operate in Ubud and Canggu and offer either a car or a scooter ride. The scooter option means a driver meets you exactly where you are, hands you a helmet, and you ride on the back. It is fast, affordable, and cuts through traffic that stops cars entirely. Far better than negotiating with a street taxi. We will help you get set up when you arrive.

If you are a seasoned rider and comfortable with busy traffic flowing from the left, scooter rentals are available everywhere and very reasonably priced. Worth noting though: Bali traffic is nothing like riding in a quiet town. Motorcycles come from every direction, tourists and locals mixed, and the pace is relentless. Do not experiment here unless you are genuinely experienced on a bike.


Day trips from Ubud.

For getting around Ubud and beyond, we can connect you with our trusted drivers and guides, people we have worked with for nearly a decade. They are reliable, honest, easy to communicate with, and know the island extremely well. They will take you wherever you want to go and offer their own recommendations along the way. Just let me know and I will make the introduction.

Iconic · intense
Mount Batur Sunrise Hike
One of the most popular attractions on the island. The sunrise above the clouds is worth every step. What they do not always tell you: it is genuinely intense. Wear proper shoes. Bring a backpack because breakfast is handed to you in a Styrofoam box you would otherwise carry up in your hand. Pickup is around 3AM. Plan to be tired the next day and schedule accordingly.
Worth it. Plan for a rest day after.
Cultural · scenic
Uluwatu & South Temples
Beautiful beaches, iconic surf, and temples worth visiting. The southwest coast has stunning Indian Ocean sunsets and some of the most impressive resort properties on the island. Absolutely worth experiencing, and worth staying in if a beach resort vibe is what you are after. Single Fin is a cliffside multi-level bar and restaurant perched directly above the famous Uluwatu surf break. Relaxed during the day, livelier at sunset. Great views, good cocktails, very Bali. Also in the area is the Bvlgari Resort. We once tried to stop in for a coffee and were not let in, which tells you everything about the level of exclusivity. Worth looking into if that is your kind of experience.

Worth seeing. Not where we choose to stay.

The southwest coast and Canggu are not our personal base camp of choice. We visited in our earlier years and still stop by Canggu on occasion for a restaurant or a boutique. Our personal preference for beach time has been the Gili Islands, not because south Bali is lacking, but because the Gilis offer something genuinely different. A different culture, a different pace, a different island entirely. South Bali beaches are beautiful and the properties here are world class. Both are worth your time.

The beach clubs in Seminyak and Canggu are genuinely impressive. The quality of food, drinks, and ambience rivals what you would find in Miami or Ibiza, at a fraction of the price. Potato Head in Seminyak is the iconic one. W Hotel Bali is a beautiful property in the area. If a high-energy beach club experience is on your list, this is where to go for it.

Canggu itself is worth a day or two for the boutiques, restaurants, and energy. About 20 minutes outside the main area is Lodge in the Woods, a stay that is an experience in itself.

instagram.com/lodgeinthewoods

In Canggu, Yuki is a great spot for Japanese food with a fun atmosphere.


When you want the beach

Go to Gili Air.

For a genuinely tropical experience, the Gili Islands are the answer. No cars, no motorbikes. Bicycles, horse carriages, and the ocean. The pace changes the moment you arrive. Of the three islands, Gili Air is our choice. It strikes the right balance between vibrant and quiet. Great food, a drink at sunset, and real stillness when you want it. Everything is bike distance.

Pink Coco is our hotel there. We love checking in and not moving much. After a retreat, that is exactly what we want. It sits in a quieter spot on the island, away from the most active areas, but nothing is far. Mowies, whether you stay there or not, is a must for sunset drinks and food. Exceptional on both counts.

Beyond relaxing, Gili Air is one of the best places in the region for scuba diving and snorkeling. There are still healthy patches of coral worth seeing. Group tours run daily but we personally book a private boat through Pink Coco and go as our own little group. Worth considering. Horseback riding at sunrise or sunset on the beach is also a beautiful thing to do here.

The three islands
Our choice
Gili Air
Vibrant but not overwhelming. Great food, good energy, real quiet when you want it. Our choice every time since we first started coming to Bali
Party · buzzing
Gili Trawangan
The liveliest of the three and the one with the most going on. Great properties and restaurants, and a party scene that runs through the night. If that is your kind of trip, this is the island for it. For us, by the time we reach the Gilis we are in full wind-down mode, which is why we always choose Air. Different energy entirely.
Quiet · remote
Gili Meno
The quietest of the three. Popular with honeymooners and those looking for real seclusion. We have not been but by all accounts it is peaceful and beautiful. Worth considering if that is what you are after.

Getting there requires a fast boat. The journey from our recommended port is approximately 90 minutes. Lines at boarding require some patience and the boat is not a luxury cruise, but once you arrive you understand completely why people keep coming back. It comes with the territory.

A helicopter is technically an option and it is on our list of things to one day do as a group. It has not happened yet simply because you need enough people to make a charter worthwhile. When we connect on your travel plans, I will walk you through the best way to get there based on your timing.

Transport & logistics

We have you covered.

As part of the retreat package, airport transfers are included for arrivals March 18 to 20 and departures March 26 to 27. That is the formal scope of what is included.

Beyond that window, our support does not stop. Over nearly a decade of facilitating retreats in Bali, we have built long-term relationships with trusted drivers and guides who know the island well. If you are traveling before or after the official transfer dates, I am happy to connect you with them directly so you do not have to figure transportation out on your own.


These are our personal choices, shaped by years of returning to this island. Read through, look things up, and find what calls to you. Whatever you are curious about that is not covered here, bring it to the call and we will work through it together.